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this is the stuff dreams are made of.

April 4, 2014 12:17 pm
"I now see how owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we will ever do."

Brene Brown (via onlinecounsellingcollege)
12:14 pm
"Letting go gives us freedom, and freedom is the only condition for happiness. If, in our heart, we still cling to anything—anger, guilt, or possessions—we cannot be free."

Thich Nhat Hanh (via onlinecounsellingcollege)
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Wait! I don’t even know your name!

12:10 pm


you really don’t know anything about love, do you?

(via indianajones)

12:09 pm


Before I am your daughter, 
your sister, 
your aunt, niece, or cousin,
I am my own person, 
and I will not set fire to myself 
to keep you warm.

12:09 pm


Sleeping Beauties

12:06 pm
"stop it, stop it, stop it.
I don’t know who told you
that you were not worthy,
but stop it, stop saying it.
where did you get that idea?
i’m sorry to tell you what to do,
but shut the hell up.
you are wrong.
you’ve got it all wrong.
i’m not saying you are stupid,
but you’re pretty stupid
to believe such things.
so stop it, right now,
stop, stop, stop.
i know you know the meaning of no.
i’m telling you right now;
i’m telling you no.
no, you are not perfect,
but you are not a failure.
you are worthy.
my god, open up your eyes.
open those beautiful eyes.
look into that mirror,
no. no. no. stop right now.
you don’t get to say that.
you don’t get to degrade you.
look into that mirror,
listen up now:
you are worth it.
i don’t give a damn
what you think,
i’m telling you right now
you are worth it all."

pah// note to self
(via pah11)
12:05 pm
How to Deal With A Narcissist


1. Don’t expect empathy, understanding or praise and recognition from a narcissistic person. Keep your private thoughts and feelings close to your heart, and don’t open up and make yourself vulnerable.

2. Expect them to be rude and to say offensive things.

3. Don’t be offended by the things they…

I have many narcissistic relationships in my life. I am seemingly always drawn to a narcissist or a broken one. 

these are emotionally abusive. They cripple me. 

I am messed up - the first to admit that. I think too much and not enough at the same time and yet somehow these people see that and pray on it. I know its not personal. They do it for everyone. but it is impossible to love yourself when you are giving your love (not romantic love but caring and kindness. whatever I don’t know. some sort of deep feeling) to someone who is incapable of accepting it. 

Thats why you reminded me of him. The story is over. history does not repeat. but you are both asshole narcissists who sure as hell don’t deserve me. I accept you. I listen. I care. You fake it through - you need something from me. something you don’t give yourself. and you know I am so warm and loving and misguided that I will continue trying to give even when you tear me apart. GET OVER YOURSELF. 

sometimes I hate actors - no matter what you say. you are an attention seeker. and you either have healthy ways of dealing with it. or you don’t. Myself included but I am ridding myself of ego. and all this crap. I am ridding myself of you.